How does one decide to have children? What is the reasoning? What are the motivations?
In my instance, it was a decision made under durress. I was looking at going on a clinical trial & a caveat was that I couldn't have children for 5+ years in doing so. As such, we got on the 'horse' ; as it were. I'm not sure why I agreed to it...don't get me wrong. I love the kids & they're growing into thoughtful caring people however; what's the motivation to have kids? I've never known it.
